Support For Young People At The Gaia Centre

If you’re worried about your boyfriend or partner’s behaviour, learning more about the warning signs of domestic violence could help you – or someone close to you – stay safe. You don’t have to deal with this on your own.

Try and talk to someone you trust – perhaps a friend, teacher or parent. Or call the Freephone 24 Hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline. Helpline workers are there 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. All calls are confidential.

If you’ve been physically hurt, or feel like you are in immediate danger, call 999. The police have a duty to investigate and keep you safe.

It may help to remember that:

• You are not alone. Refuge helps support many young women and teenage girls, just like you, who are experiencing abuse
• The abuse is not your fault. Your partner may blame you for their behaviour – perhaps saying that you “made them hurt you” – but they alone are responsible for their actions
• Abuse is never okay. You deserve to be with someone who respects you and makes you feel safe